{"id":1196,"date":"2019-04-17T12:50:17","date_gmt":"2019-04-17T16:50:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/wordpress\/autisticme\/?p=1196"},"modified":"2023-11-26T16:29:07","modified_gmt":"2023-11-26T22:29:07","slug":"tired-of-the-first-austistic-to-stories","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/2019\/04\/17\/tired-of-the-first-austistic-to-stories\/","title":{"rendered":"Tired of the &#8216;First Austistic to&#8230;.&#8217; Stories"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The first autistic lawyer in&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>The first autistic actor to\u2026<\/p>\n<p>The first autistic scientist specializing in\u2026<\/p>\n<p><em>The first autistic<\/em>\u2026. The moment I read that phrase, I know the rest of the story is <strong>sloppy journalism and probably inspiration porn<\/strong> \u2014 those feel-good stories about how amazing it is that \u201csomeone with autism\u201d can accomplish a goal.<\/p>\n<p><strong>As long as there have been humans, there have been autistic individuals. Neurodiversity is not new: the labels are.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There were autistic lawyers, actors, musicians, painters, sculptures, architects, writers, doctors, scientists, teachers, and autistics of every other vocation \/ avocation in the past.<\/p>\n<p>What changed over the last 40 years are the diagnostic criteria and awareness of autistic individuals. Apparently, autistics are being magically discovered throughout society. Shocking.<\/p>\n<p>As a person, I don\u2019t want to be labeled \u201cautistic writer\u201d or \u201cautistic scholar\u201d or \u201cautistic {fill in the blank}\u201d because that feels like putting an asterisk next to whatever I accomplish. \u201cOh, he\u2019s an autistic writer!\u201d What does that mean?<\/p>\n<p>I am not the \u201cfirst\u201d anything and I\u2019m okay with that. I don\u2019t want to be the \u201cfirst autistic professor at University X\u201d or some such silly thing. I simply want to be whatever I am now and into the future. I\u2019d rather my works define me first, not my social skills (or lack thereof).<\/p>\n<p>Can we stop the fallacy that there is a wave of autistic firsts? Let\u2019s celebrate accomplishments, but they don\u2019t need to be hyperbolic stories of success \u201cin spite of autism.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Autism awareness is exhausting, one reason I\u2019m not as active this month. I\u2019ve posted these rants annually. Adding a 2019 rant doesn\u2019t change anything.<\/p>\n<p>Good for those who are accomplishing great things. But, long before we diagnosed and labeled autism, there were \u201cawkward\u201d people doing many of the same things.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The first autistic lawyer in&#8230; The first autistic actor to\u2026 The first autistic scientist specializing in\u2026 The first autistic\u2026. The moment I read that phrase, I know the rest of the story is sloppy journalism and probably inspiration porn \u2014 those feel-good stories about how amazing it is that \u201csomeone&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"more-link-wrapper\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/2019\/04\/17\/tired-of-the-first-austistic-to-stories\/\">Continue Reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Tired of the &#8216;First Austistic to&#8230;.&#8217; Stories<\/span> <i class=\"fas fa-angle-right\"><\/i><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":4014,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"iawp_total_views":16,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[4,5],"tags":[58,77,83,208,280,382,404,448],"class_list":["post-1196","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-education","category-employment","tag-april","tag-autism-awareness","tag-awareness","tag-diagnoses","tag-fallacies","tag-inspiration-porn","tag-journalism","tag-media","entry"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2023\/12\/Podcast-HD-1920x1080-comp-scaled.jpg?fit=2560%2C1440&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pfivLC-ji","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1196","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1196"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1196\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3642,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1196\/revisions\/3642"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4014"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1196"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1196"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1196"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}