{"id":1443,"date":"2008-08-16T23:24:00","date_gmt":"2008-08-17T04:24:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/wordpress\/autisticme\/?p=1443"},"modified":"2023-11-26T16:34:28","modified_gmt":"2023-11-26T22:34:28","slug":"cafe-elitistim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/2008\/08\/16\/cafe-elitistim\/","title":{"rendered":"Cafe Elitistim"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This weekend hasn&#8217;t gone well, from mid-Friday or so onward. Maybe earlier.<\/p>\n<p>My left eye is definitely out of focus, possibly causing my headaches and worse. I have made an emergency appointment to see the optometrist or whatever the &#8220;O.D.&#8221; is at the university health clinic on Monday afternoon. I cannot keep fighting my eyesight, especially if that is the cause of my migraines.<\/p>\n<p>I was invited to interview for an after school science program in St. Paul. I was excited, but the weekend stresses and the general hassles of my upcoming schedule may require that I decline the interview. The university is unsure where my office will even be this year. Annoying.<\/p>\n<p>I thought part of my problem was a lack of social contact and mental stimulation. Being home alone day after day is taking a toll on me, but I also don&#8217;t do well outside of the house in this relatively urban setting. I admit it \u2014 I want to be near malls and strip centers. I miss huge bookstores with cafes.<\/p>\n<p>Friday night I had RSVP&#8217;d to join a dinner out with the GenX Minnesota Mensa. It was a horrible non-experience only cementing my views on the Twin Cities and the snobbery of some people.<\/p>\n<p>We arrived ten minutes early at Signature Caf\u00e9, in St. Paul. The moment you see the accented \u00e9 you know the place is either mocking itself or taking itself too seriously. I don&#8217;t mind mockery, but this was a case of serious snobbery.<\/p>\n<p>The menu was big clue that this was not a place for us. Nothing was affordable, at least not in our budget.<\/p>\n<p>The &#8220;Beware of Attack Democrat&#8221; sign and &#8220;Air America&#8221; stickers were another clue that we would not be comfortable. Those items were next to flyers for a sailing class, pet portraiture, and &#8220;Chefs of Minnesota&#8221; day. Yes, we were in way over our heads. Typical of the Twin Cities, the Saabs and BMWs should have indicated to us we didn&#8217;t belong. Our Hyundai Accent was probably considered an eyesore.<\/p>\n<p>My back is very bad. I was in extreme pain and my allergies have been a problem. We asked to be seated and the response was, &#8220;We seat parties after everyone arrives.&#8221; There wasn&#8217;t a single person seated inside the cafe. Not one. Just a huge empty room of tables. Nice, when you have a customer in pain.<\/p>\n<p>We tried to sit at the four-seat bar, but barstools are very bad for my back. The legs hanging low caused excruciatingly sharp pains in my lower back. I opted to stand.<\/p>\n<p>After 30 minutes, about half spent standing, we left. By then, two others of the six reservations had arrived. I wasn&#8217;t going to wait for two more people without a seat inside.<\/p>\n<p>I hate the Twin Cities. I despise them. A lot. This experience did not help.<\/p>\n<p>One reason I left was the question, &#8220;How do you like Minnesota?&#8221; wasn&#8217;t going to get a very nice response. I&#8217;d tell them bluntly, &#8220;I cannot wait to leave. I&#8217;d even rather die than live one extra day here.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve decided the low unemployment rate isn&#8217;t a good sign. It&#8217;s a sign that people are leaving, so jobless rates are low. Sure, you get low unemployment to brag about and high wages&#8230; but it is because everyone who can leave does. The rich don&#8217;t have to care, since they can always travel to escape this hell when they want. Or build gigantic homes with game rooms for winter.<\/p>\n<p>If we were rich, we&#8217;d live in the suburbs among the normal people.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This weekend hasn&#8217;t gone well, from mid-Friday or so onward. Maybe earlier. My left eye is definitely out of focus, possibly causing my headaches and worse. I have made an emergency appointment to see the optometrist or whatever the &#8220;O.D.&#8221; is at the university health clinic on Monday afternoon. 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