{"id":1447,"date":"2008-09-09T23:56:00","date_gmt":"2008-09-10T04:56:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/wordpress\/autisticme\/?p=1447"},"modified":"2023-11-26T16:34:28","modified_gmt":"2023-11-26T22:34:28","slug":"bowling-alone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/2008\/09\/09\/bowling-alone\/","title":{"rendered":"Bowling Alone"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have discovered that I like bowling. I bowl alone on Tuesdays, after teaching. It isn&#8217;t that someone else can&#8217;t join me, but I go bowling in the student center with or without anyone else.<\/p>\n<p>Bowling allows me to concentrate on something &#8220;meaningless.&#8221; It&#8217;s like meditating. I think I like darts for the same reason. (I cannot shoot pool, due to a bad arm, but I do try.) I like escaping&#8230; focusing on something that isn&#8217;t career based. There&#8217;s no horrible result if I miss a pin.<\/p>\n<p>What about the noise? I know I hate bowling alleys when they are crowded and noisy. But the student center is quiet. It&#8217;s me, a TV with CNN or ESPN, and the alley. In fact, not one of the other seven alleys was being used. It&#8217;s great.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;d like my own shoes and bowling ball. It&#8217;s amazing that I can use something so public. I admit to scrubbing my hands after bowling. I convince myself to worry only about the actual bowling and nothing else.<\/p>\n<p>Curiously, it reminds me of watching the waves of the St. Croix river last weekend. I love to sit and focus on the motion of the waves. I need these moments without deep thought.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have discovered that I like bowling. I bowl alone on Tuesdays, after teaching. It isn&#8217;t that someone else can&#8217;t join me, but I go bowling in the student center with or without anyone else. Bowling allows me to concentrate on something &#8220;meaningless.&#8221; It&#8217;s like meditating. I think I like&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"more-link-wrapper\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/2008\/09\/09\/bowling-alone\/\">Continue Reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Bowling Alone<\/span> <i class=\"fas fa-angle-right\"><\/i><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":4014,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[33,110,593,635,667],"class_list":["post-1447","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-general","tag-activity","tag-bowling","tag-relaxing","tag-sensory-overload","tag-sports","entry"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2023\/12\/Podcast-HD-1920x1080-comp-scaled.jpg?fit=2560%2C1440&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pfivLC-nl","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1447","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1447"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1447\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3893,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1447\/revisions\/3893"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4014"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1447"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1447"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1447"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}