{"id":191,"date":"2016-12-02T15:02:00","date_gmt":"2016-12-02T15:02:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/wordpress\/autisticme\/?p=191"},"modified":"2023-11-26T16:32:40","modified_gmt":"2023-11-26T22:32:40","slug":"how-it-feels-to-be-diagnosed-with-autism-late-in-life-the-guardian","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/2016\/12\/02\/how-it-feels-to-be-diagnosed-with-autism-late-in-life-the-guardian\/","title":{"rendered":"How it feels to be diagnosed with autism late in life – The Guardian"},"content":{"rendered":"

I was in my late 30s when my diagnoses were altered to include autism<\/strong>. I still don’t know if the diagnosis helped. Maybe it helps others. More often, it simply frustrates me to be so tense and anxious all the time. I would like the world to be quieter, calmer, more honest, more logical. Is that being autistic<\/strong> or<\/strong><\/em> simply being an intelligent introvert<\/strong>?<\/p>\n

What I want, more than anything else, is a steady and secure job. A career. And it seems that is what the adults in this article also want.<\/p>\n

‘All my life suddenly made sense’: how it feels to be diagnosed with autism late in life | Society | The Guardian<\/a><\/p>\n

I meet Baron-Cohen in a crowded Starbucks near St Paul\u2019s Cathedral in London, where he wryly comments on the mixture of chatter, clattering cups and muzak \u2013 \u201cFor a lot of autistic people, this would probably be hell\u201d \u2013 and casts his mind back over the 35 years he has been thinking about and researching autism. He started working with six autistic children in a special unit in Barnet, north London, in 1982. Fifteen years later, he set up the Cambridge research centre; two years after that, in 1999, he opened a clinic dedicated to diagnosing autistic adults.<\/p>\n

\u201cThere was a growing awareness that autism wasn\u2019t just about kids,\u201d he tells me. \u201cI was receiving more and more emails saying, \u2018My son\u2019s an adult, but he\u2019s never fitted in. Might he have autism?\u2019 An adult couldn\u2019t go to a child and adolescent clinic, so where were they meant to go? If they went to a learning disability clinic, and they had an IQ above 70, they\u2019d be turned away. So these people were like a lost generation. That was a phrase I used a lot.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Did the autism diagnosis help? Do I even consider it valid? What about previous labels and possible future labels?<\/p>\n

What I know is that the label added to confusion, in some respects. It was yet another way to group some of my personality traits together. It doesn\u2019t really connect my palsy or my paralysis to anything. It doesn\u2019t relate to my mild colorblindness. It might, or might not, explain my exhaustion when I\u2019m in social gatherings. Or I might simply be a disabled introvert.<\/p>\n

Does the label\u00a0autistic<\/strong> help?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I was in my late 30s when my diagnoses were altered to include autism. I still don’t know if the diagnosis helped. Maybe it helps others. More often, it simply frustrates me to be so tense and anxious all the time. I would like the world to be quieter, calmer,…<\/p>\n

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