{"id":2089,"date":"2021-03-29T16:51:55","date_gmt":"2021-03-29T21:51:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/wordpress\/autisticme\/?p=2089"},"modified":"2023-11-26T16:27:42","modified_gmt":"2023-11-26T22:27:42","slug":"autism-is-off-putting-first-impressions-lasting-discrimination","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/2021\/03\/29\/autism-is-off-putting-first-impressions-lasting-discrimination\/","title":{"rendered":"Autism is Off-Putting:  First Impressions, Lasting Discrimination"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Getting a job is difficult when you\u2019re autistic. The data aren\u2019t promising: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/wordpress\/autisticme\/2021\/03\/16\/podcast-episode-060-autism-adhd-and-bursts-of-productivity\/\">85 percent of autistic college-graduates lack full-time employment<\/a> in their desired field.<\/p>\n<p>The job interview process works against us in ways it might not work against the physically disabled. Sadly, I\u2019ve noted time and time again, we <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/wordpress\/autisticme\/2018\/01\/13\/autistics-make-others-uncomfortable-instantly\/\">autistics make other people uncomfortable<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>I know outgoing, charming, socially skilled disabled individuals thriving in their workplaces. They attend parties, they serve on committees, and they consider many colleagues friends. One of these amazing people told me, as well-intentioned advice, that if you\u2019re happy and enjoy life, of course, you\u2019re going to succeed against the odds.<\/p>\n<p>Data support this: positive people do in fact receive better evaluations, more promotions, and earn more money over their careers. Personality traits matter in all cultures. This isn\u2019t an issue of economic models or religions or anything else.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Autistic traits are perceived as negativity.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nobody wants to work with the angry, serious, intense, anti-social loner.<\/p>\n<p>The Americans with Disabilities Act doesn&#8217;t address the desire employers have for a social fit&#8230; and I&#8217;m not going to fit in no matter how much I try. And try I do. Over and over.<\/p>\n<p>Since I started this blog in 2007, its primary focus has been my career or lack thereof.\u00a0I\u2019ve been fixated on why my employment history suggests I\u2019m unlikely to have even an abbreviated career as an employee.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, I have taught at eight post-secondary institutions. As an adjunct, I\u2019ve worked as long as five years for a university. That\u2019s not bad, but that\u2019s also not a full-time career. As a full-time instructor, I\u2019ve had one-year posts. That\u2019s it. A year here, a year there. Sometimes, with part-time work before or after the full-time contract.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Problems with employers started during the job interview process.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Analyzing the past, there have been clear signals during job interviews that I would struggle. The statements made by hiring committee members and their leading questions were red flags, which I didn\u2019t always recognize.\u00a0This is a list of things people said that should have (and will now) concern me:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u201cYou seemed really distant until we started talking about the work.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cYou don\u2019t seem to like small talk.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cYou don\u2019t smile a lot, do you?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cYou\u2019re either intense or disengaged.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u00a0\u201cAre you okay? Do you need a break?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cDo you have any problems sharing a space?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cAre you sure you can connect with students?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cWe expect some schedule flexibility.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cEveryone has to help promote the program.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cWe are a very social group.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cWhy didn\u2019t you ever finish and publish your theses or dissertation?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cWhy would you write so bluntly on sensitive topics?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cWhy do you make fun of academia in some of your writings?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>\u201cWhy have you spoken and presented at so many autism events?\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>These are only some of the statements and questions I\u2019ve encountered during job interviews, paraphrased. Several themes emerge: social skills, flexibility, and discretion. I lack social skills. I need order and routines. I write and say my truth, expressing my opinions publicly.<\/p>\n<p>That last question, probing why have I spoken and presented on autism frequently, is a thinly veiled effort to request disclosure. Of course, if I write autobiographically, it should be obvious I\u2019m autistic and disabled. It\u2019s not like an interviewer has to work hard to locate the podcast, blogs, or published works.<\/p>\n<p>As for being impolitic, I spent too many years not expressing my views or stating verifiable facts that might be unpleasant. At 52 years old, I\u2019m certainly not going to tiptoe around what is like to be an autistic individual in academic settings. If you don\u2019t like what I have written, then help change the academic workplace and classroom environments. And if you believe my complaints are unique to me, then read the far more passionate, outright angry, blogs, essays, and books by other autistic adults.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Everyone \u201cpretends\u201d during job interviews.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Okay, but that \u201cmasking\u201d and \u201cpretending\u201d to be in awe of my colleagues requires more energy than I have. I\u2019m not going to fake excitement during what is a difficult and demanding process. I\u2019ve tried. It backfires. Take me as I am, doing my best to answer the legitimate questions about my teaching and research.<\/p>\n<p>I still dream of teaching for another two decades. Yes, I want to research, publish papers, and teach students. But that\u2019s increasingly unlikely after landing on the adjunct track.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe other neurodiverse individuals can learn from my experiences. Thirty years of trying to be acceptable to potential supervisors and coworkers weren\u2019t worth it. There was no reward and a lot of suffering.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, I am writing publicly that academia wasn\u2019t an inviting culture. It isn\u2019t for many autistics, even as we are passionate about our interests and often excellent researchers. We\u2019re simply not charming enough. Again, if you don\u2019t like me writing about this reality, change the reality.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Job interviews expose autistics for what we are: uncomfortably different.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The \u201cdiscomfort\u201d interviewers feel is nothing compared to the discomfort autistics live with daily. Do like you expect us to do, and adapt a bit to our needs for a change.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Getting a job is difficult when you\u2019re autistic. The data aren\u2019t promising: 85 percent of autistic college-graduates lack full-time employment in their desired field. The job interview process works against us in ways it might not work against the physically disabled. Sadly, I\u2019ve noted time and time again, we autistics&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"more-link-wrapper\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/2021\/03\/29\/autism-is-off-putting-first-impressions-lasting-discrimination\/\">Continue Reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Autism is Off-Putting:  First Impressions, Lasting Discrimination<\/span> <i class=\"fas fa-angle-right\"><\/i><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":4014,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"iawp_total_views":559,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[5,13],"tags":[27,34,76,223,255,290,397,653,654],"class_list":["post-2089","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-employment","category-writing","tag-acceptance","tag-ada","tag-autism","tag-discrimination","tag-employment","tag-first-impressions","tag-job-interviews","tag-social-skills","tag-socializing","entry"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2023\/12\/Podcast-HD-1920x1080-comp-scaled.jpg?fit=2560%2C1440&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pfivLC-xH","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2089","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2089"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2089\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3558,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2089\/revisions\/3558"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4014"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2089"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2089"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2089"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}