{"id":367,"date":"2007-03-10T02:46:00","date_gmt":"2007-03-10T07:46:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/wordpress\/autisticme\/?p=367"},"modified":"2023-11-26T16:35:09","modified_gmt":"2023-11-26T22:35:09","slug":"never-being-normal-is-better","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/2007\/03\/10\/never-being-normal-is-better\/","title":{"rendered":"Never Being Normal Is Better"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As I compile my notes for essays and a book, I realize how much easier it is to be considered \u201cdifferent\u201d your entire life versus a late-in-life diagnosis of Asperger\u2019s Syndrome (AS) or High-Functioning Autism (HFA). The more I read about and communicate with AS students and adults, the more I appreciate their unique experiences. I was never considered normal, so my eccentricities were tolerated. 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