{"id":367,"date":"2007-03-10T02:46:00","date_gmt":"2007-03-10T07:46:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/wordpress\/autisticme\/?p=367"},"modified":"2023-11-26T16:35:09","modified_gmt":"2023-11-26T22:35:09","slug":"never-being-normal-is-better","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/2007\/03\/10\/never-being-normal-is-better\/","title":{"rendered":"Never Being Normal Is Better"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As I compile my notes for essays and a book, I realize how much easier it is to be considered \u201cdifferent\u201d your entire life versus a late-in-life diagnosis of Asperger\u2019s Syndrome (AS) or High-Functioning Autism (HFA). The more I read about and communicate with AS students and adults, the more I appreciate their unique experiences. I was never considered normal, so my eccentricities were tolerated. Independent study was offered more than once, which I loved.<\/p>\n<p>When you are perceived as perfectly normal, I imagine things must be more difficult. No one believes you when you complain about sounds, smells, textures, or colors. You&#8217;re considered moody or depressed. Any difficulties in class are confused with learning disabilities or ADD.<\/p>\n<p>Being disabled from birth, and having physical challenges that were more obvious than my different neurology, meant at least people had to admit and accept that I wasn\u2019t normal.<\/p>\n<p>Being \u201cgifted\u201d after the second grade also meant there were different expectations. You can be odd or quirky and people accept it.<\/p>\n<p>At least no one expected normalcy from me.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As I compile my notes for essays and a book, I realize how much easier it is to be considered \u201cdifferent\u201d your entire life versus a late-in-life diagnosis of Asperger\u2019s Syndrome (AS) or High-Functioning Autism (HFA). The more I read about and communicate with AS students and adults, the more&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"more-link-wrapper\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/2007\/03\/10\/never-being-normal-is-better\/\">Continue Reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Never Being Normal Is Better<\/span> <i class=\"fas fa-angle-right\"><\/i><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":4014,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"iawp_total_views":21,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[36,208,218,269,498],"class_list":["post-367","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-general","tag-add-adhd","tag-diagnoses","tag-disability","tag-expectations","tag-normalcy","entry"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2023\/12\/Podcast-HD-1920x1080-comp-scaled.jpg?fit=2560%2C1440&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pfivLC-5V","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/367","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=367"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/367\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3955,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/367\/revisions\/3955"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4014"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=367"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=367"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=367"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}