After so many stories about autism and genetics in the news media, a parent asked me “that question” yet again: Would I want to be cured? What if my “autistic traits” could have been prevented?<\/p>\n
I have answered this multiple times, on this site and elsewhere.<\/p>\n
First, my life is better than that of the vast majority of humans currently living or at most points of known history. Plentiful food, good shelter, and a relatively easy existence within the American middle class. Any complaints are the result of not considering my good fortune to be born at this time, within this culture.<\/p>\n
What parents are really asking is if their children are in some way unhappy, displeased, bitter, et cetera, as a result of existing with autism or any other disability.<\/p>\n
I have no idea how someone else feels about being alive. None. People I can’t imagine have any problems take their own lives. People I would imagine are miserable keep fighting for each extra day.<\/p>\n
Physically, who doesn’t have aches and pains? Humans are frail little creatures like most others on this planet. A little virus can destroy us, which is pretty pitiful.<\/p>\n
I can generally work around my sensitivities. It’s not like I’m going to hang out in a dance club or seek out a wool shirt to wear. You learn your limits and plan around them.<\/p>\n
Do I wish I could deal with people better? Yes, but I also don’t want to be fake or dishonest. I have a handful of friends, especially my wife, and I’m okay with that.<\/p>\n
No two people respond to similar lives in the same way. Some people are naturally more resilient, I suppose. I’m not wildly enthusiastic every day, but I’m content most days. That’s pretty good.<\/p>\n
Be thankful for life, for each day, and I suppose your children might notice and reflect that philosophy. Complain a lot and wallow in misery about life, using whatever excuse you have to be miserable, and your children will definitely notice.<\/p>\n
I have no idea if my life would be “better” or not with a cure\/treatment. It wouldn’t be my life as I know it, anyway.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
After so many stories about autism and genetics in the news media, a parent asked me “that question” yet again: Would I want to be cured? What if my “autistic traits” could have been prevented? I have answered this multiple times, on this site and elsewhere. First, my life is…<\/p>\n