{"id":78,"date":"2017-05-30T11:00:00","date_gmt":"2017-05-30T11:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/wordpress\/autisticme\/?p=78"},"modified":"2023-11-26T16:31:49","modified_gmt":"2023-11-26T22:31:49","slug":"life-plans-delayed-by-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/2017\/05\/30\/life-plans-delayed-by-life\/","title":{"rendered":"Life Plans&#8230; Delayed by Life"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My <a class=\"zem_slink\" title=\"Master of Fine Arts\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Master_of_Fine_Arts\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener wikipedia\">MFA<\/a> in Film and Digital Technology was supposed to be finished in December, 2016.<\/p>\n<table class=\"tr-caption-container zemanta-img\" style=\"float: right;margin-right: 1em;text-align: right\" cellspacing=\"0\" cellpadding=\"0\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"text-align: center\"><a style=\"margin-bottom: 1em;margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;text-align: clear:right\" href=\"http:\/\/commons.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/File:Gray675.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"zemanta-img-inserted zemanta-img-configured\" style=\"border: none;font-size: 0.8em\" src=\"\/\/upload.wikimedia.org\/wikipedia\/commons\/thumb\/e\/e6\/Gray675.png\/350px-Gray675.png\" alt=\"A spinal nerve with its anterior and posterior...\" width=\"350\" height=\"341\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td class=\"tr-caption zemanta-img-attribution\" style=\"text-align: center;width: 350px\">A spinal nerve with its anterior and posterior roots. (Photo credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/commons.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/File:Gray675.png\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Wikipedia<\/a>)<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p>It wasn\u2019t. The degree will be a semester late, at least.<\/p>\n<p>I had one infection after another, anemia, emergency room visits, blood and iron transfusions, a pinched <a class=\"zem_slink\" title=\"Spinal nerve\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Spinal_nerve\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener wikipedia\">spinal nerve<\/a>, surgery\u2026 and more infections. Add in a car accident and family things and life overtook my life plans.<\/p>\n<p>This happens, but I do not like it when a schedule slips. Unfortunately, lots of my scheduled tasks have slipped.<\/p>\n<p>Now, I need to finish my MFA paper and film, a screenplay that&#8217;s past-due, and several other projects. Plus, I need to find a job after I finish the degree.<\/p>\n<p>When I feel well, I need to work a lot to make up for the time I have lost and will inevitably lose in the future.\u00a0The panic caused by being off schedule causes my schedule to slip more, but I&#8217;m doing my best not to panic. It&#8217;s hard for me to not be distracted by the distraction that is life.<\/p>\n<p>My wife reminds me to work ahead whenever I am well enough, for the inevitable crash. My body will fail me. My mind will be exhausted. I work frantically to be ready to take a day or two (or more) off for those offline days.<\/p>\n<p>The MFA had been going well, right up until what should have been the final semester. That\u2019s life, though, we have learned.<\/p>\n<p>And now, back to my paper and planning for the film.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My MFA in Film and Digital Technology was supposed to be finished in December, 2016. A spinal nerve with its anterior and posterior roots. (Photo credit: Wikipedia) It wasn\u2019t. The degree will be a semester late, at least. I had one infection after another, anemia, emergency room visits, blood and&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"more-link-wrapper\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/2017\/05\/30\/life-plans-delayed-by-life\/\">Continue Reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Life Plans&#8230; Delayed by Life<\/span> <i class=\"fas fa-angle-right\"><\/i><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":4014,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"iawp_total_views":11,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[4,7],"tags":[268,336,462,552,588,614],"class_list":["post-78","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-education","category-health","tag-exhaustion","tag-health","tag-mfa","tag-plans","tag-recharge","tag-schedules","entry"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2023\/12\/Podcast-HD-1920x1080-comp-scaled.jpg?fit=2560%2C1440&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pfivLC-1g","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/78","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=78"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/78\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3736,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/78\/revisions\/3736"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4014"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=78"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=78"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tameri.com\/autisticme\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=78"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}